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Closet Building 101: An Easy Step-by-Step Guide to a Wardrobe Overhaul

One year ago, when I made the decision to drag myself out of my "mom wear" of sweats and yoga pants and to start consciously dressing myself, I had to build an entire wardrobe from the ground up. Having literally nothing as a starting point and having to completely break down my closet it to rebuild it back up again was extremely intimidating. Not only could I not afford a wardrobe overhaul, I had no idea where to start. How could I get the most bang out of my buck? How do I know what pieces to buy? Where do I begin??

The big, bad, scary journey
In the beginning, the task of starting completely fresh appeared to be so big and scary. But, although it took me a while, eventually I learned the whole process could be made easy just by breaking it down and following a few simple steps. The tips and steps themselves are so simplistic and really common sense, but when you're diving headfirst into the unknown and starting something new like this, "simple" can sometimes be elusive. It was for me anyway! I was over-thinking the whole thing and making it so much bigger and complicated than it needed to be. I was incredibly disorganized and went about it all in a very haphazard way that left me with a half old/half new closet that I couldn't do anything with. No bueno!

So the tips I'm sharing today are very basic and really just about how you can simplify this whole process. They may not seem all that insightful to some of you seasoned veterans, but I'm targeting the rest. Yes, you! I wish I had something like this to act as my guide when I began, it would have taken so much intimidation out of, what seemed like, a huge change. If you've built a wardrobe of functionality and now you want to turn it into a wardrobe of function and style, I'm going to share with you how you can make this big change with as little hair pulling as possible. Hopefully I can help take a little bit of the trepidation and intimidation out of starting all over again for you because I promise it's not as scary (or expensive) as it seems!

How can this work for you?
If it still sounds like this is more than you're willing to take on, don't worry! This "guide" is for absolutely anyone; any size, any age, any style. I am not breaking down specific items or wardrobe staples that "everyone" should have in their closet or anything like that. Those posts can be really helpful, but we're thinking in broad strokes right now. This is more like a method for determining what you want in your closet. You need a direction, you need to figure out your style and tastes, and you want to stay on budget. Today is about how you can do exactly that.

The Steps

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
Step 1: Find your Inspiration
First and foremost, you need a direction. The only way to begin is to find out what you like. That might sound unnecessary; you might think you already know what you like. But chances are you don't! If you've spent years without a sense of personal style, or without thinking about the look of what you buy as opposed to simple functionality, you might surprise yourself. So how's the best way to do this? Go to Pinterest, of course!! Seriously, Pinterest has been my sole source of style inspiration. That might sound silly or over-simple. What's so secret about Pinterest? But it is the best way to get a sense of your own personal style with what's mapped out right in front of you. So step 1: spend a day going through Pinterest and pin every single thing you like. And I mean every single thing. Don't worry about "I could never pull that off" or "That would never look good on me". We're going to get to that. Plain and simple, if there is something that appeals to you in any way, maybe it's just the color combination or maybe it's just the shoes; pin it anyway! Don't worry about "trendy" or popular, pin what you like.

This step doesn't necessarily have to be Pinterest specifically, I just like the ease of having everything digital and in one place. If you felt up to it, you could even do a style board and use looks out of magazines or something like that. Whatever floats your boat. The general idea is just to find as much inspiration as you can. But, however you choose to do it, you really don't want to skip this step. It is honestly of vital importance if you don't want to be overwhelmed. It's essential for organizing our tastes and likes so we don't find ourselves walking into a packed store and buying everything we see, only to end up coming home and thinking "What was I thinking?" or "This isn't 'me' at all!". I like to think in terms of "outfits" first and then break them down. It's seriously critical to not end up with a bunch of random "trendy" pieces we can never wear. 

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
Step 2: Divide and Conquer
Now that we have a good base of inspiration to work with, we want to start using our Vhen diagram. Nah, I'm kidding. But we are going to start grouping together similarities. Basically we're going to divide all of these pins by grouping like-items onto more specific boards. I have 3 boards; "Fall and Winter Style", "Spring and Summer Style", and a general "Style" board with general random items. But it can be really helpful in organizing by getting even more specific and I recommend that you do. It's definitely on my "to-do" list. I can get lost in all my pins every now and again so it'll be easier down the road if you're very specific. Like a whole board filled with just outfits that have skirts in them, or outfits with just stripes, or just muted colors, etc. You want to group your pins in a similar way so you can figure out the common thread between them. What is it that appealed to you out of these looks? Why did you select these particular outfits?

Breaking your inspiration down and grouping it will help you find all that out and get a more specific idea of what your taste and style is. Maybe you notice that you have a lot of pins with stripes, maybe you like a lot of black, maybe you like a certain shape or silhouette, these are all things we want to know because it is going to help steer us in the right direction when we begin rebuilding. We're going to figure out, with our Sherlock-ish deductive reasoning, what styles appeal to you most so we can piece together a cohesive closet that is going to be functional and versatile. 

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
 Step 3: The Overhaul
Now's when we're going to start to go through our closet. Is there anything in there that fits into any of your Pinterest outfits? Maybe one of your inspiration groupings were pins that had red coats in them and you just happen to have a red coat stuffed in the back of your closet. Maybe you never wore that red coat because it didn't "go" with anything or you didn't know how to style it. Or maybe it's not necessarily the same exact color, but it's the same shape and look. Well this is perfect! This step is when you're going to find out what pieces you already own that can come into play in your new wardrobe. "Overhaul" does not necessarily mean you have to overhaul everything. In fact, ideally, we want to build off of our existing wardrobe as much as possible. For instance, I had a denim jacket I was given as a gift and I had never worn it. Not even once. But once I went through my pins, I realized a lot of looks I liked had a similar jacket. So instead of tossing it, I kept it to build "copy cat" looks around it from my inspiration outfits.

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
Step 5: Rebuilding
Ok, now we're getting to the fun part, I promise. Now that we know what we can recycle and reuse from our existing closet, we can determine what we still need to add. Back up there a couple steps ago, we categorized our outfit pins by similar looks/items. This is what is going to save you gobs of money. For example, let's say I really loved an outfit that had green jeans. Yes, green jeans. Roll with it. But let's say it was the only look I found with green jeans and I can't recreate any more of my inspiration looks with them. Obviously it's not going to be very economical for me to purchase that item because I can't build off of it for anything else. Make sense? Maybe further down the line I might want to get adventurous and get a pair, but right now I want to know what I have the most of. That's why dividing and being specific before is going to really help out now. We want to take those common threads we found when we were categorizing outfits by similar pieces, and see which ones we came up the most with. A lot of looks with a leopard print scarf in them? Put it on the shopping list. Lots of chambray shirt looks? Add it to the list. And so on, and so on.

When you're starting from the beginning, your list might seem long but don't let that intimidate or discourage you. It has been a year and I am still rebuilding! But that's not to say that I don't already have plenty of combinations I can make out of just the few pieces I added in the beginning. You don't need to run right out and buy it all up at once. That'd be suuuuuper costly. And unnecessary. So don't think because your list is large, you need to spend a lot to make a difference. You'd be surprised at how many combinations you can create with just a few pieces. My advice is to start with a practical base of classic items and then each season, choose a few more pieces you want to add.

Winter Additions
I just did my winter closet additions so I'm going to share it with you as an example of  how I think about what I add to my closet and how I use this system. You can see how I categorized and used my inspiration, how I built off of it, and how I can recreate these looks mixing the old with the new. This can give you an idea of the whole process and how easy it can be.

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
1. Gingham Button-Up- $18.48
Out of all of my winter pins, I noticed I had quite a few looks with a gingham button up shirt. Obviously that's a bright red "buy me" flag. It makes sense for me to add this, as I know I will get a lot of use out of it. Gingham has long since been on my "to buy" list but it is a perfect example of how you don't need to rush right out and buy everything all at once. For example, I already have the black leggings, the mustard scarf, the black pumps, the green pants, etc. that are in these looks and those staples are obviously necessary to have before I can recreate these. So these were things I started out adding in the beginning of my overhaul; the neutral classic pieces. Now, when I choose to add this gingham shirt further down the line, I can recreate all of these new looks with this single $18 addition.

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
2. Camel Sweater- $25.62
Now this sweater is a very neutral basic that can be worn many different ways. But as you can see, I had a lot of inspiration pinned with similar sweaters, which also influenced me to get it. I can already see 4 potential ways it can be worn. I already have the riding boots, leggings, a leopard scarf, a chambray shirt, leather shorts, distressed jeans, etc. So this one sweater opened up at least 4 more looks that I can create with just the addition of a single piece. Never mind all the combinations I can put together on my own! A good fitting, neutral sweater is great for any wardrobe and can be worn over and over in completely new ways. Plus, it's a classic piece, not a scary "trendy" piece that you would feel uncomfortable in. And it still serves a warm, functional purpose too; it's not just for style.

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
3. Wool Shorts- $20.16
Now this item isn't necessarily a staple. In fact, it was somewhat of a splurge. Not in terms of it's cost, but just in that it can't be worn in as many different ways as the others; shorts in winter is definitely more for style than functionality. Especially as I am cold-natured and loathe being cold...we'll see how much use these actually get. But it's an example of adding something adventuresome after you've built a strong base. I want to stick to the method of adding things that are versatile, but I'm reaching the stage in my journey of wanting to play around a bit and push myself. After you've got a good base, you can start branching out and trying new things. I'm finally starting to shop more for fun than just necessity and I gotta say, it's a great stage! :)

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
4. Plaid Scarf- $7.56
Plaid screams "winter" to me so I knew I wanted to bring some into my closet. And scarves are a great way for you to introduce new prints in a small, subtle way. A lot of people are afraid of prints, but with something small like a scarf or a belt, it doesn't have to feel overpowering. We want to expand our comfort zone but we don't want to feel uncomfortable when we try something new either. My first run-in with a neon I opted for a bold dress and it made me feel like I wanted to hide myself all day. Trying something new should not make you feel like that! Scarves with prints are a great addition to a new closet for this reason. We can dip our toes into a new print, without diving straight in and feeling like we're sticking out like a sore thumb. It's also a easy and inexpensive way to add interest to something simple you already own.

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
5. Grey Knit Infinity Scarf- $13.00
Like the last scarf, this item adds visual interest and appeal to just about any outfit. Two things I did already have in my "mom" wardrobe were sweaters and jeans. But they always looked boring. Adding a scarf or an accessory like this is an inexpensive way to help stretch what you already own. And adding one in a neutral color like this makes for better versatility and allows it to be worn with many different things. Any boring outfit can be made better with a scarf!

How to upgrade your wardrobe without spending a lot of money
6. Stripe Sweater- $26.88
Now this sweater is something I really should not have waited so long to add to my closet; it should have been in that first run a year ago. I am a huge fan of stripes and a basic stripe sweater/tee/blouse can be the equivalent of, say, a pair of jeans. It's just that versatile and that neutral. My advice is to start somewhere in this realm. It's also another great "non-scary" way of adding a print into your wardrobe. Prints can seem intimidating but a stripe is not. You're still wearing something simple and functional with a sweater/tee/blouse, but it adds a nice pop that turns an outfit from boring to fun and well thought out.

So with the addition of only 6 items and just over $100, I am now able to recreate at least 24 new looks this winter. That is the most important lesson when overhauling your closet; it doesn't necessarily mean overhaul and binge shopping. 24 new looks from only 6 items! Yes, I've already built a good base but I've been operating on this same principle and using these same steps since the beginning. In the beginning you think you need to throw it all out and begin anew, but beginning anew does not mean going out and buying out the entire store. It's just about shopping smart! Find out what you like, what existing pieces you can build on and what multipurpose items you can add. Once you break it down and figure these simple things out, all of the scariness melts right out of it. You will still have hits and misses but don't get caught up on them; they're just another way to figure out what works and what doesn't!

All of these inspiration looks were pulled from my Fall/Winter Style board, feel free to browse and pin away!

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A Vision in Grey

I don't know where this look even came from. I didn't see it anywhere, no "pinspiration" of any kind to guide me. Though I'm sure I'm not the first to go all grey....and I don't just mean my hair! Ba Dum Pssh! Thems jokes people! But I unearthed this sweater from the bottom of my winter box and decided to give it a whirl and these jeans are my clear favorite....and let's be honest, they were the only pair that were clean. And so, coupled together, my vision of grey was created.

How to wear all grey


Beauty From the Inside Out: The 5 Best Protein Packed Recipes for Skin and Hair

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Protein! You hear about it all the time. You want shiny, healthy hair? Protein. You want long, strengthened nails? Protein. You want glowing skin? Say it with me: protein. Protein is essential for that youthful, glowing look we all covet.

You see all these DIY beauty recipes floating around and they usually include some form of protein. But why protein? Because it's the stuff we're made from, people! Skin, hair, nails, all of it. I hate to admit it, because I hated it so much, but anatomy class did teach me at least one thing. So it's no surprise to see it listed as one of the ingredients in these recipes. However, not all of these recipes work just because you threw in a protein. So how do you know which ones do? And how do you get the most benefits from your protein?

5 best protein packed hair and face masks

From the inside out, of course! Yes, slapping that stuff on externally will get you some results. But think about it, we need to start at the source; from the inside. Too many people forget that it's not just what we put on our bodies. Let's get that protein inside and outside! From masks to smoothies, here are some ways you can maximize your protein results and get that healthy, glowing look.


Black Friday Steals

I am going to rant for a minute. You've been to my blog before, nothing new here. I have always hated Black Friday. Loathed it in fact. I once worked in retail during a Black Friday and seeing that craziness first hand absolutely terrified me. There were clothes strewn all over the place, people were climbing the employee ladders; it was pandemonium! Then you hear stories of people getting in fights over pillows. Pillows! A physical altercation over pillows. I can't. What has Black Friday reduced us to when we're fighting over getting the better deal on a pillow? I have always loved a good deal and I frequently rave about how cheap I am able to get something, but Black Friday? I have always avoided that black pit of craziness like the plague.

  But I have to admit, when Black Friday deals were extended to online shopping, it peaked my interest. Getting good deals from the comfort of my own cozy home, dressed in my PJs, coffee in hand? Ok, I'll bite. You've got my attention. Payless is one of these stores who's Black Friday sales ran online and since this is one of my favorite stores....Yipee!! It drug me out of my Black Friday hatred just a little. Especially since I've been admiring the York riding boots at Payless Shoesource for months now. And this Friday they were on sale for....wait for it...$16.99. Boom. I immediately threw my Black Friday reservations out the window and those sweet boots in my cart. And since I was feeling generous, I picked up a schnazzy pair of kicks for the hubs too. Feeling generous or just really hating his current shoes? Eh, tomato, tomahto. But even still, with my boots, his tennies, and free shipping, our total came to $41. AND they arrived in 2 days. That never happens. Ok. I think I might actually love Black Friday.

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Holiday Style

Christmas, Christmas, Christmas. I love the holidays. I truly do. It is the single thing that gets me through the brutal winter season. Each year the days start to get a little colder, a little shorter, and a little gloomier. It's seriously depressing. I think I've made that fact clear several times. But the bright spot in this dreary time of year, is the festive holiday season..... and the cookies. Let us not underestimate the power of a good chocolate chip cookie!

So since Christmas is the only thing I anticipate amidst this 6 month stretch of "blah", I go all out. Thanksgiving night? Bam, that tree is up and twinkling! And in addition to the tree, our yearly gingerbread house and tons of handmade paper snowflakes (yes, each year countless hours are spent constructing 50+ snowflakes made by yours truly; you may let your admiration flow freely), I get each of the kids a Christmas shirt and jammies. It's a yearly tradition that began when I was a kid. My mom always made us our Christmas shirts.....

So what do you love more, the hair, the brows or the acid wash jeans?

And while I forgo the impressive craft of making them myself, I still always deck the kids out out holiday style. This year, we went one step further and got personalized holiday shirts. How's that for fancy? Everything is better with your name on it, right? Assuming you don't have a unique name like my sister (Kendall) that's almost always impossible to find in souvenirs and other random knick knacks, then it's a pain. But Bright Star Kids allows you to customize them yourself, with any name or phrase you choose.

I chose this really cute reindeer design and customized Izzy's shirt with her name. Then I found this wall decal to match. And since I'm a very "matchy-matchy" kind of person, this was perfect. 

Kid's personalized Christmas tee

Kid's style how to mix stripes and leopard print


A Two Day Reprieve

That's what mother nature gave us this weekend. We had two super warm (but windy) days. And since I knew this was a fluke and would be short lived, I snatched my opportunity for an outfit post!

How to style a military jacket


Holiday DIY: Snow Globes From Glass Jars

I say it all the time, it's like my personal preface to every post, but I love "inexpensive" and I love "easy". They're my two favorites. And when you put them together, well, that's just an all around win isn't it? My favorite kind of decorations, holiday included, are DIY projects because they are usually both of these things. I also love the unique quality of making something for yourself; you personalize it and make it your own. And alright, alright, I love the bragging power you get out of making something yourself too! Don't act like you're not just a little bit proud when your project turns out awesome too!

I'm sure you've seen these DIY snow globes all over Pinterest. Or on Anthropologie. I've been eyeing them for a couple years and admired them immensely, I just never got around to trying it myself. So boo hoo for not being on point with the innovation skills. But I'm still going to share it anyway because I just love how easy and incredibly cheap they are to make!

I'm a frugal person, you already know this. But why? Honestly, I take a really sick pleasure out of "under spending" on things. Some people like to "out spend" others, I like to under spend. And I'd be lying if I said I was blameless when it comes to rubbing someone's nose in just how cheap I got something either. Hey, we all have our vices. But I'm also frugal out of necessity. And the holidays can get a little hairy in the gift giving department. So these globes are a great, last minute, inexpensive gift you can give to just about anyone. Just how inexpensive depends on what you already have on hand. We literally already had everything so for me, it was $0. But even if you're starting from scratch, everything could easily be found for less than $10.

We (and by we, I mean me) have all kinds of glass jars already saved away. If your a compulsive "Pinner" as I am, you know the golden rule of never throwing anything away because you never know what Pinterest project you might need it for. My husband accidentally threw out a jelly jar and I seriously made him go retrieve it. So I have a garage full of what some people might consider garbage. But for the average Pinterest junkie, you know it's really treasure! So for this project, hack into your Pinterest treasure trove for your jars. You will also need

  • various ornaments or wire trees
  • glue gun or craft glue
  • Styrofoam or other fake "snow"
  • ribbon or paint
  • scissors


DIY: Cheap and Easy Accent Wall for Under a Dollar

Winter is upon us. Well not per the calendar exactly, but mother nature seems to think it is. November 16 and we're salting the roads already. And cold weather for me = no bueno. I huddle down like a hermit in my house. I'm fully considering acquiring a Snuggie. Don't judge me. But my "fashion" blog ends up really only being a fashion blog for about 8 months of the year. The other 4, I'm wrapped in a blanket.....or soon too be a Snuggie.

So, since I'm like an animal and I pretty much hibernate, I usually start some indoor DIY projects to keep myself busy.

Easy and cheap DIY accent wall for under a dollar

And since this is a relatively new home for us, there are plenty of blank slates waiting to be DIY'd upon. And when I say blank, I mean completely stark, bare, nothingness type blank. There ain't nothin' goin on on these here walls....except for maybe the seam between drywall panels because the previous owner was hasty in his renovations. Hey, what do you expect from a house built in the 1940s?

And while I want a minimal, monochromatic look for this room, this was just a little tooooo minimal. I wanted the walls to stay white; in fact, I purposely painted them white. But it needed something. And just like the style and beauty side of things, I always stay true to my frugal nature. So I've created an entire focal wall for....wait for it....88¢! Yep! Less than a dollar! Of course, I can't take full credit for the idea. I originally found it on, you guessed it, Pinterest. The original blog post I found used washi tape but it was black....and so is electrical tape. So in my money saving endeavors, with a dollar and some willpower in my pocket, I headed to the hardware store and thus my accent wall began.

All you need is

  • electrical or washi tape
  • scissors or a utility knife- I preferred cutting with scissors, my husband preferred the utility knife
  • a ruler or a tape measure
  • a pencil- with an eraser


The Season Favorite

That'd be the the denim jacket; it's my seasonal favorite. It's just about a neutral as you can get and when you think about classic wardrobe staple, the denim jacket is at the top of the list. 


A Disheartening Truth

I got my hair cut last week and, if you haven't seen it, I debuted it in this exciting post. It was this huge reveal (and surprise) and I've gotten so many compliments on it. Admittedly, short hair suits me much better than the unruly long hair ever did and everyone has agreed and admired my new look. But, eventually the time comes and that "fresh haircut glow" fades. So let's discuss the finer points of that disheartening reality shall we....

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